3 Relationship Tips For Men Who Want To Keep Their Girlfriends

You are forgetful, and you may leave your dirty clothes on the floor, but your girlfriend probably won't walk out on you. That being said, it doesn't mean there aren't a few critical factors that could have her heading out the door. You think you know your girlfriend, but you may be surprised by some things you are overlooking.

1 - Show Affection - Say I Love You

You bought her expensive jewelry, and you spent time and energy decorating for Valentine's Day and her birthday, so you are thinking, "I do show my affection.' Putting aside the material things and the time and energy spent, most women don't feel loved unless they hear 'I Love You' regularly. Women are continuously reassessing their relationships, while men tend to get comfortable. Has she forgotten all of the wonderful things you've done? No, she hasn't. She just needs to know that your feelings haven't changed. That's right. Since yesterday. So go ahead and tell her you love her. Have a hard time saying it? Slip a love note in her wallet or stick it on the bathroom mirror. And don't forget to acknowledge something she does very well.

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2 - Listen

Have you ever started what you felt was an important conversation with your girlfriend only to notice she was staring into space? Do you feel rejected? Lots of women face this same situation with their boyfriends. And sometimes, their boyfriends don't even realize they are spacing out. So what to do? When your girlfriend wants to talk, put aside what you are doing and really listen. This does not mean, however, that you aren't allowed some quiet time to yourself to just watch the game or finish a project for work. Gently explain that you would love to chat, just at a later time. A real lady will give you your space.

3 - Honesty is the best policy (well, most of the time)

It's like the time your parents told you they wouldn't be mad and you wouldn't be in trouble if you just told the truth. How did that go? I thought so. Anyone with a little life experience will tell you that honesty is not always the best policy, but outright lies are a big NO-NO. A little tact and diplomacy can have a significant impact.

Bonus Tip - Communicate

While being tactful can go a long way towards keeping the peace, it doesn't mean keeping quiet about things that really bother you. Don't let your resentments simmer. This is when communication is important. It is better to bring problems to light and not risk blowing up at her.

With some good relationship advice from the right source and both partners willing to have a little patience and keep an open mind, your relationship can be smooth sailing from here on out.

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